Weather like this makes people irate, impatient, depressed and cranky. After weeks of covering up every exposed part of the body, one gets tired of the monotony of it all. Even on a cold day when the sun is actually shining bright, moods tend to improve slightly and slowly, hope is regained. The approach of spring starts to become an exciting prospect, and we all look forward to March because it's one month closer to warmer weather and the birth of budding flowers.
More snow has fallen in Toronto in the last 24 hours, creating another thick blanket of insulation for our city. And February has only just begun. In the past, I have always viewed February as the final barrier to the introduction of balmier days, but for some reason, the time always seems to inch by so slowly. The lack of sunlight always wreaks havoc on one's well-being.
And thus, the purpose for writing this post:
I've always believed that there must be a fine balance between one's work, play and other obligations. But, what about the really simple things in life? Remember what it used to feel like to write a letter by putting pen to paper? Remember the last time you used a typewriter? Remember when reading a book curled up on a comfy chair was something you actually made time for in your busy schedule? Remember when using a hula-hoop or playing hopscotch was part of your play time? Remember participating in team sports with your buddies just for the hell of it?
These are just a few examples of what I consider simplicity at its finest. Regardless of age, we can go right back to these activities of yesteryear. In my humble opinion, I consider them 'vintage' and quite frankly, they've never gone out of style.
My husband has it right; recently, he purchased a refurbished 1974 stereo system, with a turntable, receiver, and speakers. He has made buying vinyl records a new hobby, and he has truly honed in on a 'vintage' style of living. His childlike excitement with his newfound passion is something to behold.
It has started to make me consider what I can reintroduce into my life. In my work, I have already begun to bring back a series of 'tried and true' fitness programs from the 80's (thanks to Jane Fonda). But, in my spare time, I'd really like to whip out a hula-hoop and see how long I can swivel my hips for. Then, I'd like to take out some chalk and draw a hopscotch board on my driveway and pretend like I'm 6, all over again. Why the heck not?
What's stopping you from doing something that used to give you so much joy, as a child? NOTHING.
Not enough time? Bull. Not enough guts? Total crap. All you need is to take any doubts or insecurities you have about a certain task, and simply follow through. You may even get some onlookers. And that shouldn't be what intimidates you. You may even start a trend.
Last summer while reading in my backyard, I turned on my classic rock music and instantly became inspired to get up and dance. People in my neighborhood saw me. Some of them were gathered on their balconies to watch me. And it was the best feeling in the world. I was doing something spontaneous for ME, and apparently, it was contagious. People were smiling because of my outpouring of energy.
Ask yourself what makes you feel free. It shouldn't involve anyone else in your family or friendship circles--this is just for your benefit and enjoyment. Pick a 'vintage' hobby or activity, and start up your engine. It may take a while to warm up, but I promise that once you begin, it'll feel amazing.
You owe it to yourself to enter a 'vintage' state of mind, every now and again. What a way to clear the 'grey matter' and get back to your roots. Go ahead and write that letter. Get involved in an activity you've left on the 'back burner' for way too long. Pick up that novel, grab a cup of tea, and savor your time alone as you lose yourself in a story. And above all, leave all of your technology alone--it'll be there when you get back from your trip.
PEACE!
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